{"id":6684,"date":"2014-09-30T12:43:19","date_gmt":"2014-09-30T12:43:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/?p=6684"},"modified":"2014-09-30T13:12:07","modified_gmt":"2014-09-30T13:12:07","slug":"seminar-pentru-familisti-la-cahul-cum-sa-rezolvi-conflictele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/?p=6684","title":{"rendered":"Seminar pentru famili\u0219ti la Cahul: &#8220;Cum s\u0103 rezolvi conflictele&#8221;?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/10696187_10203245289192833_5768596687473994067_n.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-6695\" src=\"http:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/10696187_10203245289192833_5768596687473994067_n.jpg\" alt=\"10696187_10203245289192833_5768596687473994067_n\" width=\"720\" srcset=\"https:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/10696187_10203245289192833_5768596687473994067_n.jpg 960w, https:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/10696187_10203245289192833_5768596687473994067_n-300x168.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/a>Peste 30 de cupluri din zona de sud\u00a0\u015fi-au dat \u00eent\u00e2lnire s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103, 27 septembrie la biserica &#8220;Emanuel&#8221; din Cahul. Participan\u0163ii din 8 biserici au \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at &#8220;Cum s\u0103 rezolve conflictele&#8221;. Evenimentul organizat de biserica gazd\u0103 a avut ca invitat pastorul Gigi Dobrin.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Primul lucru pe care l-au \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at cei 60 de participan\u0163i a fost:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>A. Moduri gre\u015fite de a rezolva conflicte:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">1. <strong>Abordarea ca \u015fi exchimo\u015fii<\/strong> &#8211; rece, nu-mi pas\u0103 de problemele care sunt, indiferent de situa\u0163ie.<br \/>\n2. <strong>Abordarea ca \u015fi Cowboy<\/strong> &#8211; trebuie s\u0103 rezolv\u0103m acum \u015fi aici &#8211; spun ei. Activ, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u0163in\u0103 seama de cel\u0103lalt.<br \/>\n3. <strong>Fiecare fuge unde apuc\u0103<\/strong>; Ea la mama, el la mai mult\u0103 treab\u0103 \u015fi mai multe ocupa\u0163ii. Cine este tot mai ocupat de regul\u0103 are probleme \u00een rela\u0163ia de familie.<br \/>\n4. <strong>Dominator. Cine \u0163ip\u0103 mai tare<\/strong>. De regul\u0103 femeile au tendin\u0163a de manipulare prin a controla b\u0103rba\u0163ii. A\u015fa a fost \u015fi Eva mama voastr\u0103, dorin\u0163a mare la ea s\u0103-l st\u0103p\u00e2neasc\u0103 pe Adam, s\u0103 spun\u0103 ea ce trebuie s\u0103 fac\u0103 el.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>B. Cum s\u0103 rezolvi \u00een mod corect. Efeseni 4:25-32<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">1. <strong>Spune adev\u0103rul partenerului t\u0103u<\/strong> (v. 25). Doamne fere\u015fte dac\u0103 umbli cu minciuni fa\u0163\u0103 de so\u0163 sau so\u0163ie. Masca nu \u0163ine mult . Cu ascunzi\u015furi \u015fi mai periculos. Cu fentatul te surprinde c\u00e2nd \u0163i-e lumea mai drag\u0103. Mul\u0163i au mai p\u0103\u0163i-to c\u00e2nd au umblat cu minciuni. E timpul s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u0163\u0103m din gre\u015felile altora , dar mai ales din Cuv\u00e2ntul lui Dumnezeu care \u00eei \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 pe famili\u015fti ca s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 cu adev\u0103rul \u00een rela\u0163ia lor, a\u015fa rela\u0163ie va fi trainic\u0103 \u015fi va dura mult timp.<br \/>\n2. <strong>Cu vorbe bune<\/strong>, (v. 29) nu cu strigare \u015fi sup\u0103rare, preocupat s\u0103-l \u00een\u0163elegi pe cel\u0103lalt, \u015fi s\u0103 aju\u0163i la rela\u0163ia voastr\u0103. Tot mai zg\u00e2rci\u0163i suntem \u00een rela\u0163ia de so\u0163\/so\u0163ie \u00een cuvinte de apreciere. \u00cens\u0103 cuvintele bune nu costa nimic, dar fac at\u00e2ta bine. Aprecia\u0163i-v\u0103 \u015fi ve\u0163i \u00eenflori. Cuvintele bune vindec\u0103, \u00eencurajeaz\u0103, \u00eenal\u0163\u0103, cresc pe cel\u0103lat \u00een ochii altora, zidesc caracterul.<br \/>\n3. <strong>Cu iertare<\/strong>\u00a0(v. 32). Gre\u015fim \u00een multe feluri, mai ales cu vorbele, din inten\u0163ie \u015fi mai ales din neaten\u0163ie ne r\u0103nim f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 vrem. Ne trebuie grij\u0103 \u00een felul cum p\u0103\u015fim, \u00een prezen\u0163a celuilalt, cum ne exprim\u0103m \u00een primele 4 minute diminea\u0163a, cum atingem, cum privim, cum vorbim. \u00cens\u0103 dac\u0103 vom fi gata s\u0103 recunoa\u015ftem c\u0103 am gre\u015fit \u015fi cel\u0103lalt dac\u0103 va fi gata s\u0103 ofere iertare, Doamne bine le va fi celor doi, dar ei parc\u0103 nu \u015ftiu.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/1234786_10203245288352812_4532114761828608740_n.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-6693\" src=\"http:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/1234786_10203245288352812_4532114761828608740_n.jpg\" alt=\"1234786_10203245288352812_4532114761828608740_n\" width=\"720\" srcset=\"https:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/1234786_10203245288352812_4532114761828608740_n.jpg 960w, https:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/1234786_10203245288352812_4532114761828608740_n-300x168.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Problema mare nu este dac\u0103 gre\u015fim, ci dac\u0103 recunoa\u015ftem c\u0103 am gre\u015fit \u015fi ne cerem iertare din toat\u0103 inima, aceasta \u00eel ajut\u0103 pe cel\u0103lalt s\u0103 ofere iertare. Exemplu de iertare ne este Domnul Isus. Doamne mult ai mai iertat Tu, iar c\u00e2nd vine vorba de mine, \u00eentreb dac\u0103 merit\u0103 cel\u0103lat. E c-am egoist modul acesta, a\u015fa c\u0103 m\u0103 uit la El ca s\u0103 m\u0103 vindec \u015fi s\u0103 ac\u0163ionez iertarea.\u00a0Dar El &#8211; Isus este \u015fi m\u0103sura de iertare. Noi nu trebuie s\u0103 iert\u0103m partenerul c\u0103 merit\u0103, ci pentru c\u0103 Isus ne-a iertat pe noi \u00een ciuda faptului c\u0103 nu am meritat.\u00a0Dar la sigur un partener de via\u0163\u0103 credincios Domnului \u00ee\u015fi va cere iertare \u015fi va da iertare dup\u0103 exemplul \u015fi dup\u0103 m\u0103sura Domnului Isus (v.32).<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Una din participantele la seminarul pentru famili\u015fti a \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u015fit urm\u0103toarele g\u00e2nduri: &#8220;De fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd \u0219tiu c\u0103 se va discuta despre familie, anulez totul din agend\u0103 \u0219i vin. \u0218i azi, ca de fiecare dat\u0103, eram prima&#8230; Cine \u0219tie de ce? Poate c\u0103 v\u0103d tot mai mult cum familia de azi degradeaz\u0103, poate c\u0103 tot mai multe familii exist\u0103 doar pe ni\u0219te h\u00e2rtii vechi \u0219i pr\u0103fuite sau poate c\u0103 rata divor\u021bului este \u00eentr-o cre\u0219tere continu\u0103. Sau poate \u0219i mai grav, realizez c\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 de Dumnezeu toate remediile \u00een salvarea unei familii duc la un e\u0219ec total. Cert este c\u0103, Dumnezeu ne-a u\u0219urat drumul vie\u021bii prin Cartea l\u0103sat\u0103 de care trebuie s\u0103 ne conducem pentru a avea o familie unde s\u0103-\u0219i g\u0103seasc\u0103 loc adev\u0103rul, \u00een\u021belegerea, respectul, iertarea, bl\u00e2nde\u021bea \u0219i iubirea. Mul\u021bumim d-lui Dobrin Gheorghe, precum \u0219i gazdei acestui seminar&#8221;, a \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u015fit Alexandra Hanganu.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">V\u0103 dorim succes \u00een rela\u0163ia de familie, s\u0103 v\u0103 iubi\u0163i, s\u0103 v\u0103 ieta\u0163i, vorbi\u0163i cu apreciere \u015fi cu iertare, toate acestea \u00een adev\u0103r, este \u00eendemnului pastorului bisericii locale, Anatol Dunas.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/1460072_10203245188350312_2861247496881636781_n.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-6694\" src=\"http:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/1460072_10203245188350312_2861247496881636781_n.jpg\" alt=\"1460072_10203245188350312_2861247496881636781_n\" width=\"720\" srcset=\"https:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/1460072_10203245188350312_2861247496881636781_n.jpg 960w, https:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/1460072_10203245188350312_2861247496881636781_n-300x168.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Peste 30 de cupluri din zona de sud\u00a0\u015fi-au dat \u00eent\u00e2lnire s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103, 27 septembrie la biserica &#8220;Emanuel&#8221; din Cahul. Participan\u0163ii din 8 biserici au \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at &#8220;Cum s\u0103 rezolve conflictele&#8221;. Evenimentul organizat de biserica gazd\u0103 a&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":6693,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,77,23],"tags":[157,158,156,114],"class_list":["post-6684","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spiritualitate","category-slides","category-interne","tag-biserica-emanuel-cahul","tag-cum-sa-rezolvam-confilcte","tag-seminar-pentru-familisti","tag-uniunea-baptista"],"fimg_url":"https:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/1234786_10203245288352812_4532114761828608740_n.jpg","views":1677,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6684","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6684"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6684\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6699,"href":"https:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6684\/revisions\/6699"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6693"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6684"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6684"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baptist.org.md\/ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6684"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}